Matt Valentine-Chase

Sex Worker? You are not alone. Integrative therapy...


Therapy and counselling for current or former sex workers in London, Manchester, Cheshire, and Nationally. As well as being trained in counselling and therapy, Matt understands the adult industry  – so you know that you won’t be judged and that Matt will do his best to see how things are for you right now – without letting the stigma you are probably used to get in the way.

Your counselling or coaching needs may be related to your job:


You might feel that people don't understand the business you work or have worked in. This experience can sometimes result in:


  • Feelings of isolation

  • Feeling judged or stigmatised

  • Loss of libido

  • Feelings of shame or guilt (caused by conditioning etc.)

  • A want or desire to leave the industry

  • Feelings of confusion whether to ‘stay or go’

  • A loss of career direction

  • Feelings of overwhelm

  • Family/Spouse issues around the work you do

  • and more


Often when sex workers seek therapy, therapists can assume that sex work is the cause of current problems. This is a relatively common occurrence and can cause distress and frustration - at not being seen or understood. Matt has extensive experience of working with sex workers and as such he knows that to most - it really is just a job. So you might want to speak to him about:

  • General anxiety and/or depression

  • Issues and concerns around relationships

  • Personal development needs

  • Business development (this is where coaching is helpful)

  • Using transferable skills from or to sex work

  • Stress, anger issues, grief and loss

  • Mid life (sometimes called an existential) crisis

  • Spiritual needs and anything you want to talk about


Everyone is welcome and Matt works with:


  • Adults over 18 (escorts, cammers, dancers, porn performers, doms, on-street etc.)

  • Groups

  • Organisations:

    • Brothels

    • Saunas

    • Health Clubs

    • Massage Parlours

    • All the above may want to employ Matt's services for their staff

  • Men

  • Women

  • Transgendered

  • Intersex

  • Gender Neutral

  • Gay

  • Straight

  • Bisexual

  • Questioning


Appointments can be by:


  • Telephone or Skype

  • Face-to-face or

  • Face-to-face in small groups

Matt does most sessions over the telephone, Skype counselling and healing or on-site in brothels and parlours in Manchester - London - Brighton - Cheshire - Leeds and at your request. He occasionally works from venues in Kings Cross London. It is highly unlikely that you will need sessions every week, due to the nature of how Matt works. Matt is an empath as well as being trained in therapy. This can be helpful if you need to process 'stuff' quickly (and safely). He is integrative in his approach, he will have a chat with you first to discuss this and carry out an assessment.

Please also see ‘Sex Coaching’ for sex and relationships as this may also apply to you in and out of work. NEW - Therapy 2 U - Matt will visit you at home or work (you'll need a quiet room for your therapy session). Please call to enquire.

Please call 07716 232 865 to make your appointment or email using the contact form.

Brothel Visits


'Wow - I fully expected you to say there was no hope. Within such a short time you brought me right back around to the real me. Thank you!'

Previous Client (shared with permission)


MONDAY to FRIDAY: 14.00 - 22.00 PM

​SATURDAY: 14.00 - 21.00 PM

SUNDAY: By Appointment.

Above times - enquiries. Work hours vary.


Most sessions take place online (Skype etc.) or via telephone. The London Sex Coach.

Please call: 07716 232 865 today.



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Sex coaching London and sex counselling London with Matt, a qualified counsellor, therapist who coaches. Therapy, coaching, training and consultancy are provided by Matt Valentine-Chase Therapy and Coaching. Please click on 'Sex Coaching' or 'Sex Counselling' and 'Relationship Coaching' for further information. Online sex coaching and online therapy is here.He is a specialist in sex work and an ally (and campaigner) for sex workers' rights. Counselling for sex workers can be found here.


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