Matt Valentine-Chase is

The London Sex Coach

Turn up the heat in the bedroom, make your needs known (to yourself first) - and step into a sex life you truly desire: with The London Sex Coach. Over thirty years of supporting people to have better sex, safer kink, longer orgasms, more solid relationships and much more. Matt has a breadth of experience from hands-on sex work (yes really) to the qualified counselling that grounds his coaching (non touch) into the only place you can truly make a change: now.All appointments are online.Nominated for the ASN Awards Educator of the Year 2026 and awarded the Sexual Freedom award back in 2017 - Matt is open, warm, skilled and funny. Humour is very much a part of setting your mind at ease for this different effective way of sexual development and/or healing. Ready to take a dip? Take a look at About Matt. Just want to dive straight in? Book via the Book Now link.

about Matt

Matt is qualified in general counselling, which means he can help you to address any underlying issues around your sex and relationship life. Such as anxiety (performance or otherwise), stress, fear, low sexual self esteem etc. He also has, apart from decades of therapeutic coaching experience, decades of hands-on experience as a previous sexual masseur and bodyworker. This means he knows which buttons work and which don't. You might be surprised about the scope of your body and its potential to make you smile.He has also, from time to time, worked as a Professional Dominant and kink content creator in the past. So he can happily transfer this real-world knowledge into your therapeutic work with him.If you happen to work in the business - you know you will be seen as an individual - see his sw friendly therapy further down the page.He works differently. More info is below if you want to look at How He Can Help.

HOW HE CAN HELP YOU

Men: want better erections? Want to last longer? Is your partner putting pressure on you to perform?Women: do you want to improve sexual confidence? Do you feel under pressure to perform certain sex acts? Stuck in a rut of 'same old same old'? These are a tiny sample of things you can explore regardless of gender.Whatever has brought you here today, let's slow it down and look at:1. How you feel (get it out of your system).
2. Where you want to go (to achieve your sexual goals).
3. Honour and respect what IS working and what you are doing right.Matt can also help with: enhancing sexual pleasure, expanding/developing into kink and safer kink advice, negotiating sexual goals between partners, addressing emotional stuckness/disconnect in your relationship, safer sex tips generally and general sexual health support, sexuality questioning, gender or gender identification questions, sex and disability, sex worker affirmative support and so much more.Book your discovery session or dive straight in and book a Deep Dive Vault series (both via the Book Now link) - that includes personalised resources and extra check-ins between sessions. Alternatively: pop Matt a WhatsApp message with your question.

sex work friendly therapy with matt valentine-chase

Are you looking for a genuine sex work friendly therapist? Not just someone who says they are? Matt has over thirty years under his belt supporting sex workers: performers, cammers, escorts, massage parlour workers and more - he knows his stuff.He won't pathologise your job, he won't assume you are seeking therapy because you sex work - he will listen to you and help you to identify what it is you need to get from this online qualified support.Matt is a qualified therapist, with a Certificate and Diploma in Counselling, a Practitioner Certificate in Time Line Therapy, and other holistic qualifications. He keeps his Continuing Professional Development up to date, including Safeguarding Vulnerable Groups, Mental Health Awareness, Autism Awareness, Mental Capacity, and more. He also holds a current clear Enhanced DBS.More importantly, Matt is deeply empathic, has a great sense of humour and you will find him really easy to talk to. Either dive straight in and click the 'Book Your Session' link or feel free to pop him a WhatsApp message if you want to know more.