The London Sex Coach - Matt Valentine-Chase

This is a time when we need to do things differently. More people than ever are feeling confused, lost and disconnected. This will affect all areas of our lives including our sex and relationship lives.


Matt, the London sex coach, works online during Covid 19 and when you need fast, professional online therapy for sex problems, sexual development, porn addictions and more. It's all about re-connecting to who you are.


Matt offers sex coaching, therapy for sex problems and addictions in Kings Cross, near St Pancras station (when seeing face-to-face clients) for non-touch sex coaching. This can help you to explore your sexual development needs with a professional qualified in general therapy - so you can also explore issues that may be associated, such as anxiety, depression and childhood issues. 

You may be experiencing:

  • Sex addictions - to porn, certain types of sex, too much sex etc.

  • Intimacy issues - struggling to commit, feeling disconnected from your partner or casual encounters

  • Erection problems

  • Coming too quickly or taking a long time to come

  • Dryness, vaginal tightness/spasm

  • Stuckness in the bedroom (or wherever you're having sex) 'same old same old' routine

  • Feeling under pressure to do certain types of sex - anal, BDSM, chems etc.

  • Feeling stereotyped to have the 'right sex' according to other's view of your sexual preference or gender identity

  • or anything sex related that you need to speak to a professional about.


Matt Valentine-Chase is a 'sexpert' who many trust with sex counselling issues in London and online. He works differently, from the heart and also has 25 years of experience in natural healing modalities in addition to 18 years in therapy.


Please see About Matt Valentine-Chase for details of his background, experience and therapy training.

Maybe you want to see a counsellor who is experienced at supporting people to also look at underlying issues that may be affecting your sex and relationship life. You may have experienced:

  • Trauma in the past or recently

  • Relationship abuse

  • Relationship loss

  • Anxiety and/or depression

  • Stress

  • Confusion - around your sexual preference or gender identity

  • anything that may or may not have affected your sex life.

This time (COVID) can't be ignored when exploring our sex and relationship needs. Matt can support you in looking at how what is going on in the world may be affecting your sense of connection with yourself and your partner/s.  He can also help you to explore safer sex during COVID in a fun and exploratory way - such as incorporating safer COVID sex techniques as part of your sex play. It is what it is and Matt has a natural ability to help you to look at the bigger picture in a humorous yet therapeutic way.

Not all clients resonate with the traditional therapy/coaching approach, so whilst Matt is trained in general therapy, specialising in sex and relationship needs, he is deeply empathic, with a natural healing ability. This means that he can tune in to you very quickly and assist you on your next sex, relationship, or personal development goal. It is highly unlikely you will require weekly sessions, due to the nature of how Matt works.

For sex coaching with the London Sex Coach in Kings Cross, easily accessed from Gatwick, Heathrow airports and Euston train station, near to Camden Town and Bloomsbury -  get in touch today, for a no-obligation chat.

Matt Valentine-Chase is disability inclusive, sex positive, kink positive and sex worker friendly. (Images: Matt and Matt with Sam Renke (love this pic!) at 'Nights at the Circus' after show expert panel in London).

New for October 2020 - Email support! Email Matt for details or visit the online therapy page.

Open-ended sessions - see Prices and How to Book for details. No obligation therapy and healing with a difference.

What is Non-Touch Sex Coaching?

What Matt does is to gently, often very quickly, bring your awareness right back to the most important place it should be for better sex – you. Your fullest attention needs to be inside your body. Matt wants you to really feel the body in which you reside, experience the breath, the rise and fall of your chest, the pumping of your heart. This is sometimes called 'mindfulness' and is an unusual, yet effective, way to increase sexual sensitivity and connection with your sexual self. Because this method is non-touch, it can be done online.

This method, some of which Matt has devised himself through experience, has incredible positive effects on your entire body... it increases what Matt calls body awareness and also begins to bring to your attention what it feels like to be present. Matt can also offer practical advice on... read more here.

What is Non-Touch Sex Counselling?

Coaching is more direction orientated, goal focussed and practical, counselling is where you benefit from Matt's therapy training. This means that you may prefer a slower process for your sex or relationship issues. It also means that Matt's therapy training can help you to identify possible underlying, emotional or psychological, blockages or challenges that are currently getting in the way of your sexual pleasure. The two can be combined and often are.


Sex Worker Therapy...

Matt is sex work affirmative, pro decrim and a passionate advocate for sex workers. Therapists are notorious for being sex worker exclusionary and for 'pathologizing' the sex worker's job: meaning that the therapist (and therapy) assumes that the job is inherently dangerous, that the worker has been 'forced' into it and that there must have been something that 'went wrong' in the workers' life to 'make them' work in the industry. Matt believes that sex work and sex workers are stigmatised - and that sex work is a job, like anything else. Some workers enjoy their job, some don't. Matt offers non-judgemental therapy for all sex workers. More info here: Counselling for Sex Workers.

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All treatments available online.

For general therapy you may like to visit the sister therapy practice - Therapy in Cheshire™ (most sessions online)

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Who do we see at Sex Coaching in London? All sexual preferences including: straight, gay, bisexual, fluid. All gender identities including: intersex, male, female, trans, non-binary, neutral and fluid (or however you identify).

Matt is truly open minded, works from the heart and wants you to know that he's here for you.

Please take a good look at the website and give him a call or email.

Latest contribution by Matt on Huff Post UK here: (opens in new window) - Sex and COVID.


MONDAY to FRIDAY: 14.00 - 22.00 PM

​SATURDAY: 14.00 - 22.00 PM

SUNDAY: By Appointment.

Above times - enquiries. Work hours vary.


Most sessions take place online (Skype etc.) or via telephone. The London Sex Coach.

Please call: 07716 232 865 today.



We Accept Cash, BAC, PayPal and Most Cryptocurrency Including: Litecoin, Etherium, Bitcoin, ZCash, Dash, Ripple, PinkCoin and much more.

Sex coaching near Euston in London UK and sex counselling London with Matt, a qualified counsellor, therapist who coaches. Matt's clinic is within easy reach of Kings Cross station, Euston Station and nearing Victoria. Very close to Camden Town and Bloomsbury. Sex coaching and therapy for all. Matt Valentine-Chase is featured on: Huffington Post (UK), BBC Radio Manchester and more.


​Matt is a specialist in sex work and adult industry therapy - he is proudly listed on the North east Sex Work Forum here: Mental Health Services for Sex Workers.

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